Mercy and Compassion

"Compassion provokes fierceness, whereas mercy prompts tenderness."

Julie Ann Stevens
Julie Ann Stevens

Awakening to Wholeness is a series of prompts, reflections, and teachings about how holding the tension of opposites can help us to heal division and experience wholeness. If you feel moved to share your own reflections, we invite you to email us with the subject line “Wisdom of Opposites” or tag us on social media with #EHoPWisdomOfOpposites.

If Goodness, Truth, and Beauty are the philosopher’s divine qualities, then mercy and compassion are qualities of the Holy One from the lens of faith. While the pair often come in preaching packages that lump them together as if they were one single quality of the actions of the Holy One, from the perspective of lived experience, the pair form a powerful package of oppositional tension. 

Compassion provokes fierceness, whereas mercy prompts tenderness. Compassion finds justice and mercy lands in love. Compassion stirs when something from without moves something within, and then it moves out, from within, to reconcile whatever suffering caused the stirring.  Mercy arrives from without when something from within needs tending, and as it moves in, from without, it heals whatever brokenness needed mending.

When my heart breaks because I witness something deeply wrong in how the world is working, I know compassion. When my heart aches because I deeply long for something unmet within, I know mercy.  Mercy and compassion both point toward wholeness. Yet, they are like the left and right hand of the Holy One, working in distinct ways to complete the ongoing work of healing. 

“Gaze Within” by Julie Ann Stevens, Artist in Residence

Contemplative Questions

We offer the following questions as prompts to help you reflect on the presence of opposites in your spiritual practice and your life.

  • Think of a time when you’ve experienced mercy. How did it feel? How did it prompt you to engage with the world, with yourself, or with God?
  • Think of a time when you’ve experienced compassion. How did it feel? How did it prompt you to engage with the world, with yourself, or with God?
  • How might you live into the qualities of mercy and compassion this Holy Week?

Join the conversation! If you feel moved to share your reflections, we invite you to email us with the subject line “Wisdom of Opposites” or tag us on social media with #EHoPWisdomOfOpposites.

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Christine Luna Munger
Christine Luna Munger

Christine Luna Munger, PhD currently serves as the director of the Episcopal House of Prayer. She previously served as Coordinator of the Spiritual Direction Certificate and Professor of Theology at St. Catherine University. She regularly writes, teaches, and leads group prayer sits at EHoP.

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